Work with Trishia

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Community Care

Community building is essential to collective liberation. I hold space for the individual and the collective through moments of tension. I notice patterns of grief and channel solutions, trusting that what’s good for one is good for all.
Collective Mediation is guided by the same guidelines that support HypoFutures.
I bring lifetimes of failures and successes with/in community and individually that informs how I lead folks toward their goals.
A Death Cafe is an intimate, peer-led space where people can come and share around any aspect of death and dying in a group setting. The space is facilitated with gentle space-holding that encourages participation by all (no matter how small) and does not shy away from awkward silences.
We are not here to fix anyone’s grief, but to make space to hold it for a short while with you. Rest, breaks, stretches, tears, breathing are all possible and encouraged.
A Death Salon is also an intimate and peer-led space, but the focus of sharing and space holding is determined through prompts, panel discussions, workshops, etc

Individual Care

This is for those that believe in being held by someone in their feelings. For those that do so much, are lights to so many, and want a little extra space to be heard.
I ask the cards everything. Source guides my connection between you and your ancestors as we uncover your gifts and see your highest self.
To know grief is to know love. Grief is the final act of love we give to the moments and people that have died. We will create memorials for what/who has died (including our past selves), and work with them to process the things we can no longer hold inside us. Let the Anitos we create together hold these big feelings.
Anito translates to ancestor spirit. In precolonial Philippines, totems were made for these spirits where family and spirit could care for each other symbiotically. The dolls we create together remember this practice and hold space for continued connection to/with our past—honoring that grieving is a life long process.
What does rest look like? How do we prioritize our passions while transitioning out of overwork? How can we further develop our creativity and live our designs? Together we can take a moment to collaborate together on the work/rest equation and find the right balance that works for you.
In times of transition, we look to remember, and also to move through. Commemorate your transition with a temporary or permanent mark, intuited with intention.

Guideline #1.
We begin with death. We begin with grief. 
We remember with gratitude.