We grieve in Community, with Community.

Guideline #1.
We begin with death. We begin with grief. 
We remember with gratitude.

Trishia (she/they) — also known as Mala — believes that no one should live or die alone, afraid, or unprepared. She is a queer, Pilipinx death worker, artist, sister, eldest daughter, ninang, service animal mom, Capricorn stellium, and 2/5 Projector. Trained through Going with Grace (2021) and shaped by her community and lived experience, Trishia brings both structure and heart to her work.

She supports people at the thresholds of change—offering care, calm, and presence through life’s transitions and endings. Through one-on-one support, small groups, and diasporic ritual, she helps healers, artists, and everyday people navigate loss, transformation, and closure with dignity and ease.

Her vision is a world where every transition and ending is met with care and presence, so no one has to face change alone.

Your grief matters. Your grief is powerful.


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Offerings

  • To know grief is to know love. Grief is the final act of love we give to the moments and people that have died. Together we can:

    • Plan pragmatic/logistical support to tend to end of life before and after transitions (advanced directives, power of attorney, arranging care, meals, etc)

    • Honor your grief through sharing story, meditation, spiritual healing before death, death meditations, legacy/memorial making

    • Create memorials for what/who has died (including our past selves), and work with them to process the things we can no longer hold inside us. Let the what we create together hold these big feelings.

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  • A death cafe is an intimate peer-led space where people can come and share around any aspect of death and dying in a group setting. The space is facilitated with gentle space-holding that encourages participation (no matter how small) by all and does not shy away from awkward silences. We are not here to fix anyone’s grief but to make space to hold it for a short while with you.

    Often times, these spaces have been generative in navigating life/relationship changes and accessing memories, not necessarily tied to physical death.

    Death Cafés are a free offering. Subscribe to our Substack to be notified.

  • Similar to death cafés, but tailored to your specific collective needs.

    We facilitate gentle space-holding that encourages participation by all and does not shy away from awkward silences. We are not here to fix anyone’s grief but to make space to hold it for a short while with you.

    Examples of a community care spaces we’ve hosted include: